Resolution: The Secret Sauce of Success That Most People Skip
Let’s be honest—”resolution” often gets a bad rap.
Maybe it’s because every January we write them, post them, say them out loud in front of our gym buddies… and by mid-February, we’re back to ordering triple-cheese pizza while binge-watching reruns of The Office. But let me invite you to reimagine resolution—not as a fleeting New Year’s promise, but as a core principle for success.
The great Benjamin Franklin once wrote, “Resolve to perform what you ought; perform without fail what you resolve.” That’s more than just a line from a wise man with spectacles and a kite. It’s a roadmap. A personal standard. And it might be the missing piece in your journey toward success.
What Is Resolution, Really?
Resolution isn’t about just making a decision—it’s about making a decision with backbone. It’s a personal declaration that says, “This is who I am, and this is what I will do—no excuses, no backing out.”
It’s not powered by feelings. It’s not based on motivation. It’s anchored in values. In fact, in my book Moral Compass, I talk about how resolution is an outgrowth of integrity. When you know your values, you make decisions that align with them—and then you follow through no matter what mood you’re in.
Think of resolution as the bridge between intention and execution. Anyone can plan. The ones who succeed are the ones who resolve.
Why Most People Fail at Resolution
Let’s break this down—because let’s face it, most people don’t fail because they’re lazy. They fail because they don’t have a system of follow-through.
Here’s what usually happens:
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We set a big goal.
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We get excited.
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Life throws curveballs.
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We say, “Maybe later.”
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We beat ourselves up and avoid mirrors for a week.
Sound familiar?
What’s missing is a mindset that says, “I will perform what I resolved to do—especially when I don’t feel like it.”
That’s resolution.
Turning Resolution Into Action
Here’s how you can bring resolution into your daily life—and make it your secret weapon for long-term success.
1. Start With One Thing
You don’t need to overhaul your life in a week. Choose one thing that you know you should be doing. It could be reading for 10 minutes each morning, taking a walk at lunch, or setting a daily budget.
Small consistent actions crush big inconsistent ones.
The secret? Make the decision once—then execute daily.
2. Make It a Non-Negotiable
Successful people don’t always love the grind. But they respect the process.
When you resolve to do something, treat it like brushing your teeth. You don’t need a TED Talk to convince you to brush your teeth. You just do it. Why? Because you resolved at some point that you’re not going to walk around with dragon breath.
Treat your goals the same way. No negotiations with yourself. No “I’ll skip just today” deals with your inner slacker.
3. Embrace Obstacles as Part of the Plan
We tend to think something’s wrong when it gets hard. Nope. That’s just real life showing up.
Obstacles don’t mean you’re on the wrong path. They mean you’re actually on a path.
If you’re resolving to become more disciplined, healthier, wealthier, or more faithful—don’t be surprised when distractions and delays try to knock you off track. Instead, be prepared. Pre-decide how you’ll respond. That’s the kind of mental clarity that builds momentum.
4. Say It Out Loud and Track It
You don’t have to announce your resolution to the whole internet (unless you want the accountability), but at the very least, write it down and say it aloud.
Something powerful happens when you declare your intentions. It creates clarity and commitment.
And then track it—simple checkmarks, journal entries, or digital trackers. Success likes data. Your brain likes to see progress.
5. Don’t Wait for January
This is your permission slip to start on a random Tuesday. Or Thursday at 3:42 p.m.
The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time? Now. Stop waiting for the perfect moment and start with the present one.
Why This Matters on Your Quest for Success
Without resolution, dreams stay in dreamland. With it, you transform your values into visible results.
Whether you’re trying to become successful in business, relationships, fitness, faith, or finances—resolution is the power tool that builds your future. It’s not flashy. It doesn’t trend on social media. But it’s the glue that holds everything together when life gets messy (and it always does).
If you’re serious about success—mentally, morally, physically, spiritually, or financially—build a life that honors your resolutions, not just your emotions.
A Word of Hope (And a Little Humor)
You’re going to mess up. You’re going to miss a day. That’s okay. Resolution doesn’t mean perfection—it means persistence.
When you fail, don’t call it a failure. Call it a plot twist. Laugh, learn, and get back to it.
Success isn’t a finish line. It’s a journey. One resolution at a time.
And hey, if Ben Franklin can juggle inventing bifocals, founding a country, and writing timeless advice in between—you can probably hit the gym and answer your emails on the same day.
Want to learn more about how to build character, live with integrity, and resolve to live a purpose-filled life?
Check out my book Moral Compass—available now on Amazon. It’s packed with practical tools and real-life stories to help you stay grounded in what matters most.
And for more blogs, free resources, and coaching tools to help you become the best version of yourself, visit my website:
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Let today be the day you stop hoping and start resolving. Because you’re not just chasing success.
You’re becoming someone worth following.
Make the resolve.
Live the resolve.
And I’ll see you along the path on your Quest for Success.
Make it a Great Day.
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